Am I really in the wrong

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I got mad at bf ..hes been un employed and around the house dang near 24/7 for 3 months. I work 40 hrs a week.I said you dont do..certain things around the house…he gets mad at me saying im wrong& well he took his stuff upstairs& i know he wont talk to me & probably say hes moving out….ill be alone..ill have to fix my own car etc& ..Basically im in the wrong . Am I? I mean if he does move out.. yes it will hurt initially money wise w the cars needing fixed. That he could do . but I will survive ..

Hi Audry,

From the outside looking in, it seems like you are expressing your needs and boundaries, and he is avoiding the core taking any accountability in the partnership. Relationships can’t function if disagreements automatically turn into emotional withdrawal. If you would like to explore this in more depth, I am available.

Bright blessings, Pixie

It is completely understandable that you feel frustrated. Working 40 hours a week while your partner has been home for three months creates a significant imbalance in “mental load” and physical labor. From an LOA perspective, your current reality is a reflection of your dominant internal state—including your fears of being “alone” or “wrong”. Its also obvious your partner is feeling lost and he’s obviously not communicating this with you. Best was to approach this IMO is to Shift Your “Self-Concept” Law of assumption says, everyone is “you pushed out. Meaning you are connected to the people in your inner circle and you will manifest according to your frequency (You are like a magnet pulling things to you with your words and your thoughts). “If you assume you are “the one in the wrong” or “the one who will be left alone,” the universe will continue to prove you right. The Assumption: Start assuming a new identity: Affirm out loud for 10 minutes in the morning and 10 minutes right before bed time : “I am in a relationship where I am lovingly supported and chores are shared effortlessly”. “My SP is so happy and grateful now that he has a new job with good hours and great pay”. If done daily things will start to shift within a few weeks. We all go thru challenges. We all let our fears get the best of us. Its important to forgive yourself because at the end of the day its not about right or wrong, it’s about you letting your mind speak when it was your heart that wanted to do the talking. If you need any help with a daily routine or if you just have some questions as to how to balance out the energy between you and your Special Person, don’t hesitate to reach out. Have a blessed evening.