Most got it wrong

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I have been in this forum for over 4 years and the majority of clairvoyants, empaths etc lead me to believe that I would end up together with a poi. That person has not bothered to contact me since we had an argument in January because he crossed a very big boundary of mine. With respect I am trying to understand how so many advisers got it so wrong.

Hi Carmen,

I can understand your frustration in this and I have to tell you there’s many variables that could contribute to the WHY so many established psychics could get this one thing wrong.

One of the reasons that came to my mind first was that it could be your energy- or to be more specific your desires for certain outcomes can be too overpowering for some readers to cut through.

This isn’t a slam against you or to say ‘it’s all your own fault’ at all.

I personally have only found 1 psychic in the past 20 years who could accurately read my energy- much less make accurate predictions that came to pass.

I contribute my case as – strong psychic shielding.

If you aren’t one to practice psychic self-defenses like I do, then the possibility is still around your energy and it could be projecting such a strong vision and vibe of what you wanted to happen (assuming they told you what you wanted to hear) that it was all, all of these readers could see.

Another possibility is that you may not have allowed your readers enough time to see the fullest picture.

Many times insights don’t jump straight to the final outcome in 3 minutes or less, or even 5 minutes. Especially when there’s many layers to uncover before we can get to the deepest and truest core.

I’m not sure exactly what your experiences were, what was predicted or how much time was allowed for the predictions to be reached from the ethers and delivered to you.

Still, I hope this helps give you some behind the scenes insights into some of the possibilities that can cause so many to see the same- wrong- outcome.

Best wishes Carmen and congratulations on holding up your boundaries! Especially NOW at this time in our cosmic history- PERFECT TIMING!

xoxox Jessica Lee The Secret Psychic

You mentioned he crossed a major boundary in January, and moments like that often shift the energy significantly because self-worth begins outweighing attachment.

You also made a choice at that point to draw a line for yourself, which is completely your right. Free will can and does change the direction of outcomes, sometimes very suddenly.

I don’t believe any reader intentionally misled you. It may simply be that the connection itself was genuinely strong and as you stated, there was a big boundary he crossed.

First, I am truly sorry for your experience.

I also want to acknowledge that I do not have enough background from four years of readings, conversations, and interactions to speak with any real authority about your specific situation. None of us reading your post has access to everything that happened, so I can only offer some thoughts based on patterns I have observed over the years.

In my view, insight is rarely a one-way process. A reading is a collaboration between two people trying to understand a situation with limited information. Readers do not receive a complete picture. We receive impressions, notice patterns, and then attempt to interpret them. Our experiences, beliefs, biases, and assumptions influence that interpretation.

Clients also come into readings carrying hopes, fears, expectations, and desires. That is completely normal. We all do it.

What I have seen happen at times is that both the reader and the client can become attached to a particular outcome. Once that happens, information that supports that outcome tends to receive more attention than information that challenges it.

That does not mean anyone is intentionally misleading anyone. It means both people are human.

One of the responsibilities of a reader is to keep all possibilities on the table, including possibilities that neither the reader nor the client wants to hear. If a reading only reinforces hope while dismissing contradictory evidence, it becomes less useful over time.

The reason I stress this is that reality matters. A person’s actions matter. Their choices matter. Their willingness to communicate, respect boundaries, and participate in a relationship matters.

Behavior is a form of communication, just as intuition is a form of instant insight.

If someone consistently moves toward you, that is information.

If someone consistently moves away from you, that is also information.

As readers, we should never become so attached to an interpretation that we stop paying attention to what reality is showing us.

With respect to your question, I do not know whether the readers were wrong, whether important information got overlooked, whether circumstances changed, or whether other factors were involved. What I can say is that when many people focus on a particular outcome for a long time, it becomes easier for everyone involved to filter information through that expectation unintentionally. Over time, we can become less sensitive to information that points in another direction.

For me, the lesson is not that sessions are useless or that intuition has no value. The lesson is that insight works best when it is grounded in observation and reason, and when a willingness to re-evaluate what is actually happening continually balances it.

Intuition is a tool for gaining insight, but it should not be mistaken for complete certainty.

No outside voice should become more important than your own lived experience. When someone’s actions repeatedly show you who they are and where they stand, that information deserves to be listened to alongside intuition, hope, and outside guidance, regardless of what any reader may have sensed.

I’m sorry for your experience….you mention so many advisors got it wrong, my question or first thought would be: why are you seeking so many advisors?

that is not a healthy practice IMHO, to seek many advisors, and it can happen because of anxiety, or trying to get “reassurance” about a prediction.

Expectations must be in check, whether it’s about readings, relationships, or whatever it is….a reading is not infallible, and even if many people say the same thing, it doesn’t mean it holds more weight when it comes to a prediction.

As for why so many, or why anyone got it wrong: Sometimes people will be wrong. People make mistakes, or misinterpret things. That is unavoidable.

This is my take. You’ve been consulting advisors for the last 4 years. Over time, possibilities shift. Each reading is a snapshot of the current energies and the possibilities they may lead to. The choices you and your POI made in January led to different possibilities. You changed the trajectory by changing the current energy.

Hey!

Reading is often a super accurate way of tuning in and connecting with peoples energy, but its not foolproof, and the clients energy can influence outcomes. Often within readings I give instructions on how to handle a certain dynamic, but sometimes clients will blow up at someone, or call 10 times, and these sort of things can end up influencing the energy. So it really depends on the specifics of the situation, things can sometimes go astray.

Looking for authentic insight without all the hocus pocus? I’d love to help guide you on your path forward. Whether you’re seeking clarity in love, career, personal growth, or life’s bigger questions, I offer honest, compassionate guidance to help you move forward with confidence and understanding.

~Advisor Antara!

Because they are fake and it’s just a money making business…

Nicole86, There is a big misconception that psychics work because “it’s just a money making business”. Reality check, 99% of us aren’t getting rich here. As for being fake, bad psychics get chewed up by the rating systems. Only the good ones survive and grow to make a living income. Our new generation of light workers are professionals and won’t have their career choice bashed. Perhaps a change in the type of questions would help you get more out of your readings. For example, instead of “When will I get what I want?” ask “Is this right for me? I empower my clients, so they are in control over their own lives. I sincerely hope you do the same :-) Blessings Zella

A few yrs ago..I had an advisor tell me something was going to happen in..January..It came and went with out it happening. If course I was upset and down. But the next year January..it did happen. . They might not be totally wrong in your case,hopefully that is the case

Yes, Audry sometimes timeframes can be off as time and energy are fluid. Readers don’t control your outcome we’re only reporting what we feel, while different methods to read are used our understanding of the energy/tools are VERY different from one another a lot of the time.

Nicole86, your comment raises an obvious question.

If you genuinely believe this entire platform is fake and nothing more than a money making business, why are you still here?

Your account is registered and active, you’re participating in the community, and you’re following and commenting in the forum discussions. People generally don’t continue engaging much less pay for services they believe are entirely fraudulent.

It’s easy to dismiss an entire profession with one sentence. It’s much harder to acknowledge the countless hours many advisors dedicate to listening, supporting, and helping people find clarity during some of the most challenging times of their lives.

I invite you to a live conversation session where we can explore the specific patterns and influences shaping your love life. We can move past general uncertainties and focus on actionable, practical insights that will help you gain clarity and prepare for the relationship you are seeking.

You do not have to face this disappointment alone; I am here to help you find the perspective you need. When you are ready, please start a private session so we can begin this process together. Professor Diana

Carmen, beautiful soul… I hear you and I want to honor how frustrating this is. It is both frustrating and incredibly disorienting to hold onto 4 years of hopeful readings against a present reality that is not matching that hope you held in your heart. This is what I will tell you, sweetheart, as I just wanted to pull a gentle message of guidance for you. Your situation right now is honest and very telling – that you are standing at the edge of the unknown. There is not a fixed script. There is an energy here that I am receiving that names what you already feel in your body – that this was a real heartbreak. A rupture. Not simply a misunderstanding that just resolves itself. But what I do see is movement coming toward you. After a period of stillness – and also so much anxiety you are going to be picking up pace. This doesn’t specify direction… It could mean movement toward each other that has been predicted but honestly it could even be movement into your own chapter – where you finally feel that you are not stuck in the waiting anymore and when that happens things are going to shift for you so quickly. You have been trying to make sense of the silence and what you have been told and that is what the entire energy of the reading is being asked from. Not about. This isn’t necessarily telling you that your poi will come back but it is telling you that after a long and heavy stillness and so much pain and confusion – something in your life is about to move. I do feel a masculine energy here, as well and also wish fulfillment. Something is going to find you that will bring your heart joy. You are moving that direction, sincerely. I hope that this message finds you well. Brittany