No contact 2 months but checks my stories every Sunday and monday without fail!

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Why is he doing this?

Without providing any real context it’s difficult to see clearly why, but upon consulting my deck it says he is doing what he is doing is due to a lack of maturity, courage and he feels frustration in his life. He seems to avoid meaningful connections even though that’s the very thing he wants. Looks like there’s a cynicism he is carrying and it sabatoges things that can grow. He’s also curious about you, but lacks the courage and desire to just connect, so he’s settling by keeping a connection alive with just checking up on you passively without real interaction.

Hello. Thank you so much for taking the time to post in the forum. Seeing that he views your stories but doesn’t reach out can certainly be frustrating. I wonder, though, whether knowing that he is interested would actually change what you’ve described here.

If he is interested yet chooses not to reach out, what would that mean for you? Would knowing his feelings change what you need from him or what you consider acceptable communication from a romantic interest?

It may help to ask yourself what his watching your stories makes you hope for. What would you consider meaningful evidence of interest? Are you gravitating toward what he is actually offering you at the moment, or rather, what his behavior could eventually become?

There may be many reasons someone watches another person’s stories. What we know is that he is watching them and not contacting you. That doesn’t tell us everything about his feelings, but it does give you something concrete to consider when deciding whether this situation gives you what you want.

As much as we all may be tempted to predict how someone’s behavior will develop over time, we can make our clearest decisions based on what we actually know now, rather than what we hope might happen later.

You may ask yourself, “Is what he is offering me enough for me?”

This question may help you clarify your own limits, regardless of what his feelings may be.

Good luck to you, my friend.

This is a common thing with avoidants or those who like to play the field.

Yes, definitely avoidant behavior for sure but if you would like to five into what to expect from him and look into whether or not things will change I’d be more than happy to take a look into things