Need help with my ex husband.

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Jamie Lea Patterson (maiden name is Jamie Lea Wendt) Born 07/02/1991 at 8:33pm in Madison, Wisconsin USA.

Brent Lee Patterson born 01/26/1981 at 9:15am in Fort Atkinson, Wisconsin USA.

Brent and I were married on 08/14/2020 and divorced since 12/27/2024, but right after our divorce he decided he wanted us, our family back and to have me move to where he and our son we share together had moved to so since 01/03/2025 I have been living with Brent. Since mid July 2025 that’s when everything shifted he told me he wanted us to go separate ways and wasn’t in love with me and wanted me to move out. He stopped asking me to move out since send of September 2025 but then few ago started to demand for me to move out again. He’s hot and cold, when it’s just him and I its like we are together, clearly we are intimate, and when he talks it’s always us or we etc. I do love him and want us back together and to be a family but I fear that he’s been talking to another woman maybe his ex I don’t know. Can anyone help me with answers of the future for him and I?

Hello dear Jamie, I would be honored to help you with this issue with your husband, and I’m so sorry that you’re having to go through something so uncertain with him.

I am a professional astrologer by trade and would be happy to look at your charts. From what I’m feeling intuitively I do feel like he is straying from the relationship but more in an emotionally distant way and I’m not picking up on a 3rd party that is active for now.

If you’d like me to look more indepth into this situation, call me and we can have a thorough discovery and chat.

Sending you love and hope to talk with you soon!

Hi Jamie. I don’t see anything changing in this situation as far as I am looking out. Just repeats of what’s been happening. So overall you can expect him to be intimate but then want you to leave or he himself will leave. And so on, and so forth.

If he’s asking you to move out, off and on, then I would say personally if it was me, I would move out. If nothing changes, nothing changes.

Best of luck to you & take care

Jamie, thank you for trusting this space with such a raw and complex situation.

Right off the bat, looking at your birth data and Brent’s, I feel a strong karmic pull between you—like you’ve known each other across lifetimes. The divorce date followed by him pulling you back in just days later (Jan 3, 2025) tells me this isn’t a simple “he’s done” story. There’s deep attachment, especially around the son you share. But here’s the honest truth I’m picking up: Brent is deeply conflicted between obligation/familiarity and his own unhealed emotional wounds. His hot-and-cold behavior since mid-July isn’t random—it’s fear-based. When you’re alone, he feels safe and connected. But when outside pressures (family, ego, possibly someone from his past) enter the picture, he shuts down and pushes you away.

I do sense a third-party energy. Not necessarily a full-blown affair, but an ex or a new woman he’s been emotionally entertaining—likely someone who feeds his ego without the weight of marriage responsibilities. That doesn’t excuse his behavior, but it explains the sudden “I want you out” demands after months of peace.

My advice from a psychic perspective: Stop reacting to his cycles. The more you wait for him to choose you, the longer you stay in emotional limbo. The energy shows a real window for reconciliation in late spring 2026, but only if you create space now —physically or at least emotionally. If you stay in the same house under his rules, he’ll keep yo-yoing you.

Since this is a public forum, I won’t dive into the specific timeline or the name I see hovering near him. But I will say this: your future with Brent depends less on whether he loves you (he does, in his broken way) and more on whether you’re willing to stop being his safe harbor while he figures himself out.

I’d love to read for you in a private 1-on-1 reading —no filters, no onlookers. There’s a major turning point coming up for you by March 2026 that I’d rather not discuss publicly. If you want the truth about the other woman, the exact timing of his next shift, and how to regain your power in this dynamic, click my profile and book a session with me today. You deserve clarity, not chaos.