Why did I do this to myself?

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I’m so heartbroken, my boyfriend/partner told me that he doesn’t love me because we have fought too much. Is this possible? Do couples really fall out of love because of constant fighting? What I’m confused about is that I have always felt like he never loved me. It hurts but I kind of feel relieved like if a weight got off my shoulders idk I’m confusing myself.

Hi Moriah,

I’m so sorry you are heartbroken. I can help you work through some of the confusion. The confusion is coming from your resistance to the relief even though you are hurting. I am available for a session if you feel called.

Bright Blessings, Pixie

Hi Moriah, yes arguments and fighting can cause couples to fall out of love. I would say the weight off your shoulders is relief due to the fact that you don’t have to deal with the cycle of fighting.

I hope this helps, best of luck to you

So unfortunately this is possible yes, but something is telling it has nothing to do with the fighting and I don’t feel the fights being your fault as I feel some manipulative energy coming from him. The weight off your shoulder is a good thing, but, but being heartbroken is understandable as rejection does hurt especially after you’ve invested a lot, but it can’t rain all the time.

If you’d like a deeper look into things I’d be more than happy to let you know what happens next, best approaches for coping, how to move forward, what else to expect etc. In the mean time do take care xoxox

I can sense the heartbreak in your field, but also a quiet truth — deep down, you’ve known this connection wasn’t nurturing your spirit for a while. Fights create energetic cracks, and over time, love can drain through them. The relief you feel isn’t confusion; it’s your soul recognizing freedom. Be kind to yourself — this is a turning point, not an ending.

I can help (:

Yes, this does happen at times, as hard as it is to accept the fighting ends up triggering them to view you in a different way. It’s like you become an enemy instead of a lover and once it gets to that point, its so hard to get it back.