Broken and lost

2 months ago
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I’ve been married 30yrs I’m 46 8yrs ago I had some surgery that was bad ended up becoming 10 surgeries and disabled but after the first ryrs my husband kind of disengaged with me alittle come to find out he was having an affair. He was truly sorry I believe he said he was lonely and I was laid up in bed couldn’t move I forgave him because I totally got it. I did everything he wanted I got up out of that bed took my life back my house back thought we were good well guess not last year I find out its still going on and now it’s like he doesn’t care that ik.hes gambling all our money away this woman has nothing to offer him its tearing my family apart. He just disappointed for days then comes back but there is no reason we’re not fighting.right now he’s been gone 2weeks almost just stopping in. I’m devastated I can’t quit cryin I’m sick it all about sex and he think I control him and I don’t. Idk what to do I’m really for the 1st time in my life think he’s gonna leave me and I can’t Handle this at all I’m freaking out. He said my jealousy caused this cause I wouldn’t share..really I’m all alone someone help Mr plz

about 1 month ago

Hi Queenwise,

I’m so sorry to hear how lose you feel right now. From the outside looking into your situation, it feels as though he refuses to take accountability for this behavior that lead you to be where you are now. The physical intimacy and jealousy are excuses. Him coming and going is showing such a lack of respect, but also that he knows that you won’t push back.

This whole thing makes me sad for you. Considering that it was sparked by your having physical disabilities is not your fault honey. I think the only realistic thing you can do is define your boundaries and push for open communication. I would be happy to discuss this was you in you wish, but I am always honest, even when it’s not what you might hope to hear.

Bright blessings, Pixie

about 1 month ago
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JoAnne Maree (joannemaree)

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I’m sorry to hear of your heartache and ill health. Your husband, and you, your relatoinship needs a clearing.. you are both over burdened more than most… please, you both love eachother please be sincere and open with eachother. You both need to get help, as individuals and as a team, maybe relationship counselling, and someone to cleanse and bless you both and your relationships… I am happy to help advise and guide you.. Please contact me if this feels like something you are attracted to :) light and love to you both. blessed be. Jo-Anne.

about 1 month ago

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