My grandmother died. Im depressed

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Yesterday morning around 4:30, I got a phone call from my grandfather saying that my grandmother was not breathing. We instructed him to do chest compressions and call the ambulance. When we got there the ambulance pronounced her dead. The image of her lifeless body has been making me cry like I have never cried before. When the carried her away, my grandfather was a wreck. I have never seen him breakdown like that. My mom was also a wreck. We are all a VERY tight knit family. I feel a very big void in my heart. I keep crying, I tried remaining strong for my mother but I am dying inside. I haven’t slept, barely ate, and I randomly burst out in tears. My mom has to calm me down. I miss my grandma, I didn’t see this coming. It was too sudden. Everyone is still in shock. I just know I cant be too depressed because im making my body physically ill. She was such a bright and vibrant person. Her whole community loved her. But she was diabetic, she had high blood pressure, she had a condition where her skin was itching constantly, she had cancer (but cured before her death) she had breathing issues,one of her legs stopped working due the diabetes that caused her leg to stop working and she had to use a walker to the point she could barely walk, and kidney problems. But this did not develop until the past 5 years. Within the past 5 years her health really deteriorated. She did not look like the same as she did when she was the BRIGHT and VIBRANT woman that she was like 10 years ago. But we still didn’t expect her death since her health was being controlled regardless of all of her health issues. Her body was in a lot of pain, but it was still being controlled under the care of my mother (also her doctor). I am just hurting so bad. I want to just die.

I am sorry to hear about your grandmother,the card I have pulled for you is to know that you are guarded and protected and you are going to get through this.Also the daily guidance card I pulled for you is that some fresh air will also help you during this hard time,if you could visit a park/beach or anything with nature it would definitely be beneficial.

I hope you stay strong and feel better soon.

Best of wishes Saoirse

Hello Veronica!

I can understand your feelings, but your grandma was a very good lady she never wanted that her family member be sad because of her and somewhere you are hurting her, So please don’t get hurt and be sad just remember that if you worried and sad and depressed she won’t rest with peace.

Blessings,

Angel Amariah

Dear Sweetheart,

Surely you are hurt. The grief in your energy is overwhelming. I can see your hurt and I also can feel it. I can guide you through it and offer my wisdom to get past the pain and try to make it easier for you. I know the pain you feel for two reasons. I have gone through it last year and I can see everything your feeling with the gifts I do have. It is ok to be hurt. It is ok cry and fall apart. Come and talk to me live I'd be happy to help you through this tough time. Or try to help you.  I will answer any questions you have will honesty and compassion.

I wish you strength, Nichole Heart.

My condolences to you. Its normal to be hurting and grieving during your loss. If you wish to contact me I can help you through it. May god put peace upon you and your entire family -Debbie

hi dear can i have your grandmas full name and d.o.b and yours also contact me live so we can do a reading about this