Help I Am Homeless

12 days ago

I’m in a situation where we were wrongfully evicted from our house. We found a new place and paid for it so we could move in on the first. Then the tennants would not leave and had to be evicted so we had to wait a week. Now they have done damages and we have to wait for repairs. I would like to know if we will be moving in this place and possibly when. We have nowhere for our pets we have no place to go I really need help.

7 days ago

(HUGS)

Jasmine, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. I am an empath, so I can’t see future events to answer your main concerns, but I did want to address this experience and provide any insight I can to help you get through it. What you’re describing is a high-stress, unstable situation, and it makes sense that your mind feels overwhelmed right now.

When life feels this uncertain, the nervous system goes into threat mode. In that state, it becomes very difficult to think clearly or plan, because the mind starts trying to solve everything at once.

Right now, the most helpful thing is not to try to figure out the full outcome. It is to slow everything down and focus only on stabilizing the next small steps in front of you.

For the moment, try to bring things back to the present hour and the present day. Ask yourself what is directly in front of you that needs attention right now, rather than trying to solve the entire situation at once.

If possible, focus on very basic grounding: Eat something small if you can. Drink water. Sit down somewhere safe and let your body settle for a few minutes without trying to problem-solve.

From there, begin to separate what is emotional overwhelm from what is logistical action. These two things feel connected, but they are handled differently. Emotional overwhelm needs calming. Logistical issues need step-by-step attention when your mind is more settled. Empaths like me can not see future events, but I do know what helps the mind calm so that you can see your way through this and get options. Hope what I provided helps.

You do not need to solve everything today. You only need enough stability to take the next step when you are ready.

Take this one moment at a time. Slow is appropriate here.

(HUGS)

1 day ago

Hi Jasmine,

The feeling I got was you always figure things out. I am sorry to hear you are going through such a hard time. Sending you healing love and light.