Can't breathe

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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I literally can’t breathe with the amount of negativity from these men who come my way. One word dsyfuctional. I would like too meet someone normal and sane one day- positive would be good. I have decided not to look- just purposedly give up. Good thing I am not desperate or needy. What is the problem with these men and my love life. I have thrown the towel in because I can’t take the disrespect anymore. I have to rebuild my self esteem up because of how they talk too me.

over 8 years ago

Good morning,

Unfortunately, it is not just your life that seems to reflect less than positive men in the dating field. Your choice to not look is what I would have suggested, too. As you said, a lot of desperate and needy people out there sort of created this paradigm of extremely forward people. Online dating seems to have created a false sense of security because you share so much before you meet in person and it results in people treating strangers like they know them better than the do.

There is also the abundance and ease of apps that literally bring hundreds of right to your phone. It is starting to desensitize some. We forget there are actual human lives on the other side of those pictures they are “swiping” on.

Work on yourself by all means mama. Build yourself to a place where your self esteem won’t be damaged by ignorant people. You deserve it!!

Bright blessings my dear, Pixie

over 8 years ago
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over 8 years ago
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*~+Love Specialist Lauren +~* (reunite_lovers)

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Hi La1243,

I do see there’s so much hurt in your past, but don’t lose hope because you can have love in the future! Give me a call, let me do a reading and look into you future to see what’s in store. I have a $25 special now. God bless

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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Thanks Lauren trying to be strong

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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Getting to the place of being by myself. Being with noone than I don’t have to worry about getting hurt no more.

over 8 years ago
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Psychic~Reveals~All~Now (tiffany18)

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I would love to give you a reading I am online now I will lead you and guide you to the right path

over 8 years ago
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Jodie (light4you)

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ten mins for ten dollars / for everyone !

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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Aida, this is all day … running these men off. Its becoming a job. I do not seek love on dating sites as I had bad experiences. The guy I was with wanted his cake and eat it too. Definitely was not ready for commitment. He wasn’t honest with himself and had a lot of issues. Anyways, I have run off some crazy disrespectful men. Been called everything, but my name. I don’t meet these men just chat and conversation.. the talks are about sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex… showing me nudes, sex, sex, sex, dates are about meet and greets, sex, sex, sex and more sex.

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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So I do not date Aida, I rather bump grocery buggies at the store or something like that with somebody. I am not looking for love once again, not right now. Its been 7 months no dating and celibacy 4 momths. I was fine before dating my ex. I was happy and content. Trying to go back to that place focusing on my kids, career, and me. Doing me – being independent and single.

over 8 years ago
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Lmao I told every man that seeking sex go find a whore ( excuse my language) or find someone else. Its not me. Some get mad.. i personally don’t care. Just let me be me you know. My ex and I have a strong connection only reason why I pursued him. None of it makes sense. Being in love with someone that doesn’t give love back. Anyways. I am just solo.

over 8 years ago
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*~+Love Specialist Lauren +~* (reunite_lovers)

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La1243, come chat with me. God bless

over 8 years ago
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That is sad.. you beat my age xs 3 if I give up I go bitter and jaded. Trying to reopen myself and let my guard down Alda because I have been at that place for years after the death of ny ex 3 years ago so I let my guard down to go back through this again. Ook. My ex was the last man. Not giving up on men just don’t want to deal with them no more with dating. I have reached my llimit. Enough is enough.

over 8 years ago
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la1243

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Not disgusted just aggravated and tired of explaining myself over and over again. When they ask sex questions I ignore them or don’t respond. I eventually walk on.

over 8 years ago
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Hello, La Come in so I can give you a reading and see when the right man is coming in for a relationship and love for the future and much more . Try specials – Come in for session and chat . Blessings