What is wrong with these men

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They don’t care if you are single, dating, married nor do they care what their status is. Why do men assume all women are about sex? I get tired of being approached daily by this. It works on my nerves. I know I have turned away over 40 men in the short time I have been single and it seems that 90% of the men are like this. They don’t know how to approach a woman nor respect them. Wtf Love sending off their pvt pics- what is this an ego boost? Do men still date? The ones I am meeting wanna go to motel and hotel rooms… my answers are always no. They leave and come back asking the same question. Sorry if I am seem like I am ranting, but these are not young men- old men too in 30s and 40s wtf. Maybe. It’s just me?

Society has lost its values. Most men and females nowadays do not want a serious relationship. Having said that there are still people out there seeking what you want.

Javi I am an inch from throwing the towel in and being by myself at least I don’t have to worry about a heart ache, but most lie to still get what they want. It’s really sad and selfish, but it’s crazy. I am at that point. When I tell these men off I give it to them straight from the hip. Some are crazy to come back and ask the same question again. Smh.

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If a woman take off her cloths,she does every woman naked.Everyone is responsible to set a standard in the society.If a woman do wrong then every man think,all women do like her and behave like same.A fish do all pool’s water stinky.But one of in thousands who do not let go her high standards low.Join me for more details and peace of mind.

La1234, it is your body so you have the right to say no to those men. I was raised Catholic and firmly believe sex is sacred and shall only done in marriage.

Yea,this is our body but there are some limitations and boundaries for us from God.God give us our life but this is not mean to commit a suicide.God give us brain to think.This is our test and up to us which way we chose,right or wrong! We are answerable of our every action which we do in our lives in front of Him who give us guardianship of this life.

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I come from a traditional family.

A dating man is like a married man. It’s the same with a separated and married man. Best to marry a single, widow, or divorced man. It’s best to wait until marriage for sex, but this day and time it’s rare and hard. If I am in a committed relationship yes.

All of this is crazy with dating and all

Same thing happens w me.. Im terrified to ever trust or date anyone new that I dont know ever again. I get photos of private parts and didnt even ask for them then my friends and a guy who was interested in me last year, get werided out or upset thinking i started it. I dont. So over it. I thought by meeting men in their 30s and looking to their 40s it would change also, but the behavior isnt. Its sad to see men as far into their 40s doing this too. They do it in a more respectful way sometimes the older they are, but they still exhibit this behavior and cheat. I guess bc so many women these days give it out for free or play house w their boyfriends, men look for easy females like this and those of us who have moral standards are “more difficult” to them and they move on to the easy female and often put rings on the easy females fingers. I know bc my friend is one of those women and got a large rock on her finger while she has sex w multiple people behind his back “doing her thing”.

Also, mind you the guy I was involved with got treated like crap in the end by his exes. Constantly complained to me he tried to help his latest ex of 3 yrs before me (who also sounded like an easy female) and be there for her while she walked all over him, hung on other men, was sick in the head, cheated on him hurt him to the point of drinking and blacking out for days. God put a good woman in his path finally (me) I loved him so much, stood by his side thru thick and thin, supported him through everything, babysat him, bitched at a guy and slapped him away from me, who tried to grab me at a club in front of him several times. TOLD me i was the only person to be there for him for an entire year when nobody else was. He goes on facebook finds all these new female friends and old to speak with from back in the day, had a lady friend from high school calling him daily then. So then after all this, you know what he tells me?? “I want you to get over me. I dont love you like a girlfriend.” “I’ll go to counseling w you to get over me.” Really??!!!!!!!1 I hope he continues to keep meeting scumbag females and regrets this for the rest of his life rejecting me! I really loved him :(

Broken and blue omg I’m so sorry. Try not cheating – me✔ never hurt this man – me✔ Cooked for him- me✔ encouraged him- me✔ motivated him- me✔ despite I was a good woman he used me for sex, took advantage of my kindness, and I think and believe he didn’t appreciate me.

Sometimes a person doesn’t realize what they have until it’s gone. Men would throw away diamonds for old rocks. Guess what I am at the point of saying fuck men and be by my damn self. I’m In the end, they realize what they got when it’s too late and that 25% woman doesn’t satisfy him like the 80% woman did. That’s what most men want an easy woman that will sleep with Tom, Dick, Harry, Bill, Joe, and Jack. Me I don’t want a STD girl. Half of this stuff don’t have a cure. I get tested yearly. I’m too good for 95% of these men and half can’t handle real so I play hard to get. I have too – I don’t know their intentions. I never been on a date in my life with a REAL MAN nowadays it’s about sex for a date so I don’t bother. It’s Sunday I can’t be preaching on here.

Not giving out the milk despite I’m the whole cow. Girl I’ve been rejecting married men, dating men, and single men who wanna have sex nothing else. My ex said the same I’m gonna have women crawling all over me. I told him to grow up and be a man. A 41 year old man saying this- 1st thing in my mind is this ain’t a man this is a boy that is below my belt of standards. I am not his back up plan when the other ones don’t work out. No need to come crawling this way.

OMG SAME THING W ME LA1234! I cooked for him and everything. We did EVEYRTHING together! Never hurt him when he complained other women did and cheated on him, i put up w his shitty behavior and his shouting w his anxiety issues and he used me for rides, sex and my money among other things. He said ( I know it looks that way like I used you) we been distant since i called him out and he realized I still had feelings and he wants me to get over him through distance. such bull man. But like you, I motivated him an encouraged him as well. Apparently thats what men dont want bc he said he didnt feel a connection w me but some woman he didnt speak w in 30 yrs he did and wanted to talk to her daily on the phone while she sent him gifts in front of my face. (she lived in another state). It hurt like hell. Im disgusted. All were casual bc the men DIDNT want anything more, thats why i never put out. Im not a cheater or a liar but even the good men accuse me of this bc of their past! Its F’d up man!

Same.. Ive always been the “side girl” men want to label me as.. I say no way! I turn down married men as well. And involved men. Some are good at hiding it though you got to watch! Im not stupid anymore.

It’s crazy, I need a drink. My nerves too bad broken and blue. I love my ex, but there’s a limit to what I will put up with. Ain’t that much love in the world to deal with crazy behavior esp with a man – sorry love. You can do better for yourself my dear and me too. First step, is knowing you deserve better and it’s out there.

Hi La,

I do see that these type of men are not the type you need in your life, you don’t want any of that energy! Let’s do a reading on you and see what the future of your relationships hold. God bless

I’m still weeding out these men it feels like a day time job. Tell these men no for sex. I have yet to find one that’s decent, respectful, and nice. It’s just all about sex. Its actually getting on my nerves. I’m at the point of saying bye bye to this dating thing and be solo start telling these men I’m gay or something. It’s crazy out there and no I don’t want these kind of men around me or my children. I’m fine without these types of men over stepping my boundaries. Keep asking for the same thing over and over again. I guess I am going to get ugly and firm like I did with Amadis. Enough is enough.

Brokenandblue: The problem is you constantly letting him, when you knew from the start, and thinking that he would want a relationship with you, after you tried to be so nice to him. You should have ended it, but you didn’t want too. So really, you can’t really blame him cus you had the choice of letting it go or continue to let him use you and hurt you.

Men mature much later than women. So just be brutally honest and upfront about your needs and expectations. and willingness to compromise if the relationship is what you are after, let them think whatever if they find it too intense or scary whatever and run! Good! At Least you’ve dodged a bullet. Work on your own dreams, and the right man will come. And if he doesn’t At Least you made some dreams come true and it’s not your fault like you said people have too many options and are overwhelmed and give up easily. A good partner is a bonus to your life, not the part that makes you whole. In the end all of us are meant to have a legacy or serve others, that’s our primary duty. Not having a societally acceptable life, husband kids, picket fence house etc. That’s a blessing. Sorry about the long rant!

@ Pikachuuuu, you need to mind your own business. You dont know the full story. Yes he did want me at a point. Things fell apart due to several reasons. Stop stalking and trolling me on the forum all you are is negative and a downer. All you do is stalk my posts and attack me and im tired of it. Nobody asked for your opinion. Im talking to la1234 NOT you. Stop commenting on situations you dont know the full story of. People share what they want. Leave me ALONE~!

Dear la1243, I am sorry you are in your situation but there are solid solutions to your situation. The I Ching Oracle I use will give you practical information on what changes you need to make to take your power bank. It is ancient wisdom that will give you insight in to your personality and past and then with astrology we can look around for you to help you make choices based on your tao. Come chat with me when you’re ready. Take care, Angel of Lights

Angel of lights right be by myself that’s the best way to be