Wisdom / a gift

over 8 years ago

I’ve been upset this weekend at a man, I’ve known for almost a year now. We dated, briefly last year but stayed connected. It was a battle (on his end) with hurtful words and threats ) in almost everytime we would message one another. After, his mom past away (late Jan) he became very different / kinder at first then worse than he’d ever been temperament wise- towards me. I tried, everything I knew to not do it back. I somehow just knew, inside this wasn’t who he really was. Although he never gave us a chance to really date. 2 months. I got to know him thru the text messages- this year. His words where sharp and hurtful at times. He a couple times disappeared – for a month or so – leaving me to think he was gone. But – he always returned. Recently, last month. He made me so happy by saying verbally don’t worry we will work all of this out. Leaving me to think we were going to really make an effort together to dicuss the issues – of the past year to put an end to it all. MOVE FORWARD. He for three weeks – put me off- saying he was busy or scheduling issues – the kids- then Wednesday night – he told me he met someone. Wow. Killed my soul. Thursday I told him goodbye. Thru text. Also- Wished him well. He quickly replied back and tried to smooth it out – I again being hurt – more than he’d ever hurt me. Couldn’t expect his behavior. I deserved more. – so today being Sunday – and after a long weekend of crying and hurting – I fell lead as I often due- to share words of wisdom and love. I told him, many things from how I looked more inward at who he was than to the outward. ( keep in mind) we have known each other almost a year- dating only 2 months.- We physically never saw each other again. Nov 5 being the last time. It’s all been thru the phone. But I got to know him – saw the good sides and the very UGLY. And ugly he did have – I continued to message him in this letter – that although he hurt me – I respected the TRUTH that he gave me. I told him – that anger, hurt, and pushing away others, only damages the one who is feeling it. It’s true. If we learn to shut the mouth and listen to the ones yelling or pushing away or who has damaging ways – maybe – just maybe we will help them realize what LOVE is. I do not know what he thought on this text message this morning but I feel better inside after doing it. Even though he hurt me – by meeting another ( which I feel is not a meaningful connection) but more out of him being in fear of a loving commitment. Thx.

over 8 years ago
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marva.lee (sunn10020)

4204 posts

Hello, I can give you a full accurate reading on his thoughts, after you text him this . I will look into spirit and see what the is thinking . Come in for a reading and chat , I will give you the truth. I know I can help you right away . Blessings

over 8 years ago
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Psychic Alinaa (psychicalinaa)

1698 posts

Hi dear, I see he behave with you very weird sometimes without any reason and you love him and have very soft corner for him in the depth of your heart.Join me I will tell you more about him,his feelings and your upcoming love life.I will help you and guide you towards the right path of your happiness.

over 8 years ago
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Cloudysunshine (cloudysunshine)

93 posts

Yes sorry to hear that’s what happened to my ex and I only knew him for one month. He was sweet in the beginning, but the last two weeks he became so negative, and started to say hurtful words.

You will know when the guy starts to change your feeling and gut will tell you.

At first, I knew something was wrong, when he started to give me the attitude and mood swings never wanted to fixed anything, always talking. I should have stopped right there instead of kept giving him the chance.

over 8 years ago
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AstroMaestro (astromaestro)

1901 posts

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