I don't want to be friends like that anymore.

over 9 years ago
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toree (toreesky)

174 posts

I feel like I’m being neglected again. My friend/cousin Tonimarie suddenly came back into my life and we started hanging out again. She recently got married to a woman (she’s bisexual). However, when me and my cousin are alone, it seems like nothing has changed with her since my absence with her. She still seems like a know it all, a bit rude at times. I almost feel like I’m forcing myself to be something I’m not and I don’t like it at all. Also it seems like if it’s something I wanna do or talk about, my issues are rushed off and just go deal with it. Instead we just talk about what she wants. I have shut my mouth cuz I don’t wanna let off on her. Like i talked to her about things that have happened in my life and at times I have tested her to see if she would be there for me. The response was what I expected. She hasn’t changed one bit and now I feel like running the other way just as I did before. It feels like a love/hate relationship and part of me feels like I’m just a third wheel.

What do I do? Should I just disappear again? She keeps trying to hang out and be in my life but just the way she is just too much. We don’t click. I don’t want to pretend anymore.

over 9 years ago
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JANICE CARRIE PHILLIPS (nova00)

17 posts

Leave her alone and take care of yourself. Seen like she’s a attention seeker and only cares for herself. Family or not, you shouldn’t have to deal with people who don’t have your best interest. If you want t,o you could just flat tell her how you feel. If she get offended, then you know what her true feelings for you.

over 9 years ago

Hi Toree,

You know in your gut what you need to do most of the time. You just need the validation. I’d be happy to chat with you in detail if you need help with what to say and how to approach her.

Bright blessings hun. Best wishes.

Warm Regard, Pixie

over 9 years ago

Hi there It is time to let go and move on for urself

over 9 years ago
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Jodie (light4you)

1268 posts

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