Trying to understand... Instead of walking away

over 9 years ago

Confused. Hurt. Wondering. Are some of the things I’m going through right now. John has distanced himself yet once again to I’m sure think. He does this every couple days then reappears by communicating to me again. We are both guilty of this actually. Our fears, of trusting are getting in the way of the positive. he has admitted in the past he’s scared. We are three months in to this and I’m just as scared. Never have I been this afraid and felt something this strong. I’ve never had anyone to keep trying or keep coming back after I pushed them away. He is an highly intellgent man with wonderful communication skills. He has to be for his job. BUT, He lacks that when it comes to sharing thoughts on love. He will give me bits and pieces. I have to either fill in the blanks or sometimes ask ?? ...He will tell me one minute, come over and the next he doesn’t have time for a relationship. I told him I wasn’t going to be with anyone who didn’t want or need me. Told him goodbye. (The last argument) he got VERY UPSET and told me goodbye as well. BUT he also told me his mother was in the hospital. I felt bad. Thus, the lack of him speaking. Bits and pieces. Now. There’s something between us more than chemistry. I do feel that. Our passion in the way we argue is evident of that. I’m scared. I just want the magic words to share with him to help us work past, this awkward phase were in. I want to work past it and be happier and be more loving and caring towards each other. I do want to be with him sexually again, like in the begining but I’m afraid of being around him because I know I would break if he ever got near me. The connection is there or was. Very strong. So I’m asking only for advise on improving this to put us in a better place. I hate disagreements and misunderstandings. Thx

over 9 years ago

You cant expect him to deal with his fears if you don’t deal with yours. Right now the two of you mirror fears back to each other. Remember the law of attraction, what you focus on, you create. Right now both of your fears are stronger than anything else, manifesting more to fear.

Come and chat, we can work through this so you can mirror healing.

over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago

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over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago

Fear is an ugly demon that shows no mercy at times. I’m fighting the urge to contact him. I feel as if it needs to be him that needs to contact first. This man needs to prove to me he is willing to TRY. I need to feel it :’(

over 9 years ago

Lisa u r correct he does need to make the first move

over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago

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over 9 years ago

I’ve got to believe in the bond he and I share. Timing isn’t mine but it will happen, when its suppose to. I’ll update, when it does. Thank you all for the positive help.

over 9 years ago

There are practical steps you can take to improve any relationship, if there is love, and when you are ready for them.

over 9 years ago

Ok, spoke to him last night and this morning. I made him aware of the cycle we were in. Told him we had to stop destroying our friendship. To think about how we felt in the beginning. I don’t know what will happen from all the talking but he did listen I just hope he heard

over 9 years ago
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over 9 years ago
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