⋅⋆⛓⋅⋆ Addicted to Chaos + Why Your 'Love' Might Actually Be a Trauma Bond ⋅⋆⛓⋅⋆

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Have you ever noticed how the people who hurt the most are often the hardest ones to walk away from? This is because trauma bonds aren’t romance they’re familiarity.

So many people think they’re in love when really, their soul is stuck in a loop of familiar pain. A trauma bond feels intense obsessive, magnetic, hard to leave not because it’s healthy, but because it mirrors an old wound.

A trauma bond happens when someone activates an old pain inside you usually something from childhood…abandonment, chaos, lack of affection or a parent you could never fully reach.

If you grew around emotional inconsistency, if love felt unstable, unpredictable, or conditional if you learned you hard to earn affection then your nervous system is wired to confuse anxiety + craving with love + connection.

A trauma bond pulls you in with highs that feel euphoric + lows that feel devastating. That push pull becomes addictive just like a drug. Your inner child is chasing the person who activates the wound they never healed.

REAL LOVE FEELS SAFE! A trauma bond feels like survival.

Until you break that pattern you’ll keep choosing people who feel like “home” even if home was chaos.

- Mz Sorceress a Psychic Medium + Witch book a session with me to dive deeper.