why cant i just forget?

over 11 years ago

I haven’t talked to 8/19/80 in over 3 months, there was really no closure in our relationship he just stopped communication with me for some reason. Why can’t I just forget about him and move on, is something holding me back? Does he ever think about me? Will I ever hear from him again at all? My dob is 10/2/80. Honest answers please!

over 11 years ago
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TerraFirma (terrafirma)

65 posts

Kimi,

You are the only one holding yourself back at this point. You have to find the closure within yourself.

You need to let it go to be able to move forward.

over 11 years ago
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Robin Bluedragon (bluedragon)

2048 posts

HI Kimi,

Terra is right, you are holding yourself back at this point. I also feel this obsessive behavior regarding him is one of the reasons he left. 3 months is too long to be holding onto the pain and the misery he brought and left with you. I dont see him coming back,and I dont see either of you having made the changes you need to to reconcile anyway. I also dont see any communication fromm him either,so I wouldnt expect any thing from him at all. Let him go,let life reset and you will see that this worked out for the best for you in this situation.

Blessings!

Bluedragon

over 11 years ago
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Psychic Hekite (psychicreadersunited)

104 posts

I can help